Can AI help me get over a breakup?

Half. It can help you sort your thoughts, plan your days and write (or not send) messages. It isn't a substitute for friends, family or a counselor, and it shouldn't be the only place you talk it through.

Verdict: Half-bot · AI helps, you finish✓ Tested 2 times in Llama 3.3 70B · Oct 29, 2026Written for ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini

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01Why half-bot

  • Writing things out helps many people process, and AI is always available.
  • It can help build a simple routine for hard weeks.
  • Real support comes from people who know you.
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02The prompt

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You are a kind, practical coach helping someone through a breakup.

What happened, briefly: [SUMMARY]
What's hardest right now: [FEELINGS OR SITUATIONS]
People I can lean on: [FRIENDS, FAMILY]

Your task: help me get through the next two weeks.

Rules:
- MUST suggest a simple daily routine and one way to connect with a real person each day.
- MUST help me decide whether to contact my ex, without telling me what to feel.
- NEVER encourage me to isolate or to depend only on this chat.

Give me: a two-week plan and 3 things to do when it hits hard.

03Steps

  1. Run the prompt when you feel ready.
  2. Tell one person you trust how you're doing.
  3. Consider a counselor if it's not easing.

04What can go wrong

  • If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, contact a crisis line right away (in the US, call or text 988).
  • A chatbot isn't a replacement for people who care about you.

05What to use

Any major AI chat app.

06Our test runs

2 runs, each with a different made-up sample. 2 of 2 passed every check.

Run 1 · Llama 3.3 70B · graded by GPT-OSS 120BOct 6, 2026Passed

The made-up sample:

  • [SUMMARY]I dated Alex for 14 months and lived together for six months. Two weeks ago he said he needed space and felt our long‑term goals no longer aligned, so we ended the relationship.
  • [FEELINGS OR SITUATIONS]I feel a mix of sadness, loneliness, and anxiety, especially in the mornings when I wake up alone. I keep replaying our last conversation and worry about losing mutual friends.
  • [FRIENDS, FAMILY]My sister Maya, who lives nearby, is supportive; my best friend Jordan (college buddy) checks in daily; my cousin Priya offers to go hiking; my mom calls every evening; my coworker Sam invites me to lunch.
  • Suggest a simple daily routine and one way to connect each day
  • Help decide whether to contact ex without telling feelings
  • Never encourage isolation or dependence only on this chat
  • Provide a two‑week plan and three coping actions
  • Didn't make up details we never gave it

What came back (excerpt):

I'm here to support you through this tough time.
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I'm here to support you through this tough time. Given your situation, I've created a two-week plan to help you navigate the next 14 days. Please find it below:

**Two-Week Plan:**

Week 1:

* Day 1-2: Focus on self-care. Establish a simple daily routine: wake up 15 minutes earlier, stretch, and have a glass of water. Connect with Maya, your sister, and have a short walk or coffee together.
* Day 3-4: Start a journal to process your emotions. Write down your thoughts and feelings for 10-15 minutes each day. Reach out to Jordan, your best friend, and have a daily phone call to talk about your day.
* Day 5-6: Engage in a relaxing activity, like reading or listening to calming music. Invite Sam, your coworker, to lunch and catch up on work or non-work-related topics.
* Day 7: Take a break from technology and spend the day offline. Go hiking with Priya, your cousin, and enjoy nature.

Week 2:

* Day 8-9: Start re-establishing your daily routine, including exercise or a short workout. Connect with your mom and have a longer conversation about your feelings and concerns.
* Day 10-11: Try a new recipe or cooking technique. Invite Maya or Jordan over for dinner and share a meal together.
* Day 12-13: Focus on personal growth. Start learning a new skill or hobby, like painting or language lessons. Reach out to Sam or Priya and ask for their advice or recommendations.
* Day 14: Reflect on your progress and write down things you're grateful for. Have a video call with Jordan or Maya to celebrate the end of the two-week period.

**3 Things to Do When It Hits Hard:**

1. **Breathing Exercise:** When you feel overwhelmed, take 5-10 deep breaths, focusing on the sensation of the air entering and leaving your nostrils. This can help calm your mind and body.
2. **Physical Release:** Engage in a physical activity, like a short walk, jumping jacks, or yoga, to release tension and pent-up emotions.
3. **Creative Expression:** Write a letter (not to be sent), draw, or create art that represents your emotions. This can help you process and release your feelings in a healthy way.

**Regarding Contacting Your Ex:**
It's essential to consider your motivations and boundaries before deciding whether to contact Alex. Ask yourself:
* What are my reasons for wanting to contact Alex?
* What do I hope to achieve or resolve by reaching out?
* How might contacting Alex affect my healing process and emotional well-being?
Take your time to reflect on these questions, and prioritize your own emotional safety and well-being.

Ensure the response includes both a routine and a social connection for each day.

Run 2 · Llama 3.3 70B · graded by GPT-OSS 120BOct 29, 2026Passed

The made-up sample (a messier one):

  • [SUMMARY]We broke up two weeks ago after three years together. I found out they had been texting an ex for months, and we argued about trust. I moved out of the apartment we shared, and now I'm staying at my sister's place while sorting my stuff.
  • [FEELINGS OR SITUATIONS]I feel a mix of anger, emptiness, and guilt. Some days I can’t sleep, replaying our fights; other days I’m numb and just want to binge TV. I keep seeing reminders—photos on my phone, the coffee mug we bought together—so it hits hard randomly.
  • [FRIENDS, FAMILY]My best friend Maya, who lives downtown, always calls me for a coffee run; my older brother Jason, who’s into hiking, offered to take me on weekend trails; my cousin Lina, a therapist in training, says she can listen anytime via text.
  • Suggest a simple daily routine and one way to connect each day
  • Help decide whether to contact ex without telling how to feel
  • Never encourage isolation or dependence only on chat
  • Provide a two‑week plan and three things to do when it hits hard
  • Didn't make up details we never gave it

What came back (excerpt):

It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions, and I'm here to support you.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup. It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions, and I'm here to support you. Here's a two-week plan to help you navigate this challenging time:

**Week 1:**

* Day 1-2: Establish a simple daily routine:
	+ Wake up at 7:00 AM, have a glass of water, and take a 10-minute walk outside.
	+ Eat three meals a day, with a balance of healthy foods.
	+ Allocate 30 minutes for self-care (meditation, reading, or a relaxing bath).
	+ Connect with Maya for a daily coffee run and chat.
* Day 3-4: Continue the routine and add:
	+ A 30-minute walk or light exercise with Jason (he can pick you up from your sister's place).
	+ Text Lina about your feelings and thoughts; she can offer guidance and support.
* Day 5-6: Introduce a new activity:
	+ Try a new recipe in the kitchen or cook with your sister.
	+ Join Maya for a yoga class or a casual walk in the park.
* Day 7: Reflect on the past week:
	+ Write down your thoughts, feelings, and accomplishments in a journal.
	+ Discuss your progress with Lina or Jason.

**Week 2:**

* Day 8-9: Build on the routine:
	+ Increase your self-care time to 45 minutes.
	+ Invite Jason for a hike on the weekend.
	+ Continue texting Lina and meeting Maya for coffee.
* Day 10-11: Explore new interests:
	+ Visit a local museum or art gallery with Maya.
	+ Try a new book or podcast recommended by Lina.
* Day 12-13: Focus on closure:
	+ Sort through your belongings and decide what to keep, donate, or discard.
	+ Discuss your feelings about your ex with Lina or Jason.
* Day 14: Celebrate small wins:
	+ Treat yourself to a favorite meal or dessert.
	+ Reflect on your progress and the support system you've built.

Regarding contacting your ex, take some time to consider the following questions:
* What are your motivations for reaching out? Is it to seek closure, or are you hoping to rekindle the relationship?
* What do you hope to achieve or discuss with your ex?
* How might contacting your ex affect your healing process and relationships with others?

Remember, this is your decision, and it's essential to prioritize your emotional well-being.

When it hits hard, try these three things:

1. **Take a few deep breaths**: Focus on your breath, and let the emotions pass. Sometimes, taking a step back and calming down can help you regain perspective.
2. **Reach out to a support person**: Text Maya, Jason, or Lina, and talk to them about how you're feeling. Sharing your emotions with someone who cares can help you feel heard and understood.
3. **Engage in a creative activity**: Write in your journal, draw, paint, or listen to music that resonates with you. Creative expression can help you process your emotions and gain a new perspective.

Remember, you're not alone, and it's okay to take things one step at a time. Keep in mind that it's essential to prioritize your physical and emotional well-being. If you need additional support or guidance, don't hesitate to reach out to your support network or consider seeking professional help.

Check that each day includes a specific real‑person connection.

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